Katerina and Nestor Gasset wrote last week about their first post, and many of the comments included links to other people's first post.
This one really touched me, and I contacted Andi for her permission to re-blog it. It's a great reminder that every home on the market has it's own story. Here's Andi's very personal account in her first post on Activerain.
YESTERDAY:
When I was a little girl, one of my favorite hobbies was to read. Yes, my collection consisted of what most little girls my age had on their bookshelves at the time; the entire Nancy Drew Mysteries collection and the occasional racy Judy Blume novel. But in addition to those, I also thoroughly enjoyed reading and flipping through the thin black and white Century 21 booklets that would randomly appear on the porch every couple of weeks.
One particular day while flipping through the pages of the booklet, I came across a photo of our house. I jumped off the couch and ran to show my mom. I was so proud that our home had made it into the "house book." It was with a resigned sigh that I was to learn that my parents were getting a divorce and that our 6 bed/3 ba house sitting on 2 acres was quietly up "For Sale."
TODAY:
As sad as that may seem, eventually everything worked out for the best. But even after 30+ years, I can't help but to always consider the story behind every "For Sale" sign. The sellers are most likely anticipating a new beginning or possibly coming to terms with what they see as a tragic ending. In this market of ever-increasing short sales and foreclosures, I think we can safely assume that its mostly the latter.
Last week when showing a buyer a property that was by "appointment only." We noticed the tight smiles on the seller's faces as we slowly walked though their home. Clearly the kids were on their best behavior because I'd never seen three 6-9 year olds sitting side-by-side so quietly with their hands in their laps.
After the tour, I thanked them for allowing us to see the house. As we turned to leave, the wife stepped forward and asked my buyer directly if she liked the house? Both my buyer and I simultaneously responded yes, although I already knew by her body language that it wasn't at the top of her list. We walked to the car without saying a word. A few minutes later she broke the silence and simply said, "That was sad, huh?" My response, "Very!"
It wasn't what the seller had asked, but how she had asked it. There was such a sense of desperation and urgency in her tone that it immediately formed a lump in our throats.
TOMORROW:
Although we didn't make an offer on the house, I was glad to see that it is now placed in "Backup Offers" status. We as Realtors are often times assisting people through such difficult and challenging times in their lives. A friend of mine who was recently laid off said to me that she was seeing it as a place she was starting from and not a place where she had ended up. WOW! What a great attitude! If we can successfully convey that to our sellers, we will have earned so much more than a commission check.
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Rather than leave a comment here, why don't you click through to Andi's original post to comment there?
I'll go to Andi's article too. Thanks for bringing this to my attention.
Thank you Margaret!! I'm very honored, especially since it was my very first post and I wasn't subscribing yet to anyone nor did I have ANY subscribers. I was so happy to get the few comments and support I received back then let alone 8 months later. :)
OK, Margaret! I've done as you asked and commented on Andi's first post. Now, I'm back to say Thank You for bringing her post to our attention AND for the awesome job you do as an Ambassador.
I think so too Margaret. Andi's post touched me too. It was the perfect transparency lesson in blogging. Why? because when you write from the heart, you make a lasting impression on the hearts of others. Katerina
BTW- it is Gasset:) I know you know that:)
Margaret. Yes, Andi's post touched me as well. Katerina said it so well, I have nothing more to add.
Kay, thank you. Nice to see you... I don't think we've been crossing paths as much lately.
Andi - There's so much to learn: tags, groups, subscriptions... Our first several posts are very lonely, aren't they? Glad to re-post this because it is a good reminder to all of us.
Mary Kay - Glad you enjoyed it. Worth a re-blog, don't you agree?
Katerina - That's what happens when I type on my mini-Acer... Lots of typos, including some that spell-check doesn't get. I have fixed the name, so thanks for calling it to my attention. Yes, this is a beautiful lesson in transparency in blogging, and it's a story that I'll remember
Margaret, I already made a comment on the original. This is a strong post, hopefully it can get special attention from the AR Gods for the story it tells.